Find Love and Peace - Finding yourself

In the recent weeks I had to learn again - or let me phrase it that way - life reminds me that nobody cannot protect themself from sadness without protecting themself from happiness. So be happy having happy moments and accept and deal with the sad ones.

Don’t waste your time in anger, regrets, worries, grudges and grief. Don't be pushed around by the tears and fears in your mind. Life is too short to be unhappy. Be led by the dreams and the love in your heart.

Never let the expectations and opinions of other people affect your decisions. It's your life, not theirs. Do what matters most to you; do what feels good for you, do what makes you feel alive and happy. 

Sure you should take the expectations and ideas of others into account - but they should never ever limit who you are or who you want to be. And never ever let others tell you who you are. There is more to life than pleasing people or society. All too often it's the case that there is so much more to life than what you experience right now. 

Life is an uncertain roller coaster. You can choose to embrace it and enjoy the ride, joyfully learning from your experiences along the way; or you can choose to rebel against all of life’s challenges, resenting every moment of your journey.

You need to decide who you are for yourself. The purpose of life is self-fulfillment and feeling love what you do, for yourself and in best case for a partner!

A while ago I wrote the article "Love is what finally matters"

Love is a beautiful feeling that makes the world a better and brighter place to live in. It’s a matter of fact that true love is hard to find, but losing the person you love is harder. 

Life is unpredictable and sometimes a few days of joy and bliss with your loved one can be followed by days, weeks and even years of pain and sadness. Your heart - my heart might be hurt, but it will recover and become capable of seeing beauty of life once more. It's happened before, it will happen again, I'm sure. When someone leaves, it's because the other's path of life lead them somewhere else or just because life is not fair 😉... But you should be sure that you and that I'll find love again.

Some say it's painful to wait for someone. Some say it's painful to forget someone. But the worst pain comes when you don't know whether to wait and cope or forget. The feeling of not knowing what the future holds for you is a painful indeed that might make your heart weep - but it also open new doors and windows in things not discovered by now.

ENJOY LIFE - enjoy YOUR life!